Ways to use this list
- Compliment circle in class: pick a pupil with the classroom picker, draw a compliment for them, and keep going until everyone has one.
- Lunchbox notes: draw one each morning and copy it onto a sticky note for your child to find at lunch.
- Team meetings: before the agenda, draw a card from For colleagues and give it to whoever it fits best, with a real example.
- Kindness week: every pupil draws a compliment, writes it on a card for a classmate, and adds one sentence on why it fits them.
- Family dinner game: each person draws a compliment and gives it to someone at the table, saying when they saw it happen.
Press Draw a card, tap the game or press the Space bar. Change the list in the box as you
like: add your own, delete what doesn't suit you, or write *2 after an entry to give it double the
chance. The game buttons switch the same list to a wheel, duck race, hat and more.
The full list (49 entries)
- You make people feel welcome
- You have brilliant ideas
- You are a great listener
- Your laugh is contagious
- You make hard things look easy
- You are kind to everyone
- You never give up
- You explain things really clearly
- You have a great sense of humour
- You notice the little things
- You are a good friend
- You make the room brighter
- You are so creative
- You always try your best
- You are fun to be around
- You are braver than you think
- You ask the best questions
- You make people laugh
- You are a great team player
- You are really thoughtful
- Your hard work shows
- You have great taste in music
- You tell the best stories
- You are so patient
- You make everyone feel included
- You light up when you talk about things you love
- You are a natural leader
- You stay calm under pressure
- You are honest, and people trust you
- You always find a way to help
- You give great advice
- You are curious about everything
- You have a kind heart
- You keep your promises
- You bring out the best in others
- Your drawings are wonderful
- You are great at solving problems
- You are a joy to sit next to
- You make our class better
- You always share
- You remember what matters to people
- You handle mistakes so well
- You are learning so fast
- You have a great imagination
- You are really good at cheering people up
- You make ordinary days fun
- You know how to make people feel better
- You inspire me to try harder
- You have the best ideas for games
Questions people ask
What makes a compliment feel genuine?
Being specific. "You explain things really clearly" means more when you add "like when you helped me with fractions". Praise for effort, kindness and choices also lands better than praise for looks, because it's about what someone does.
Why are there no compliments about looks?
Compliments about kindness, ideas and effort suit every setting, from classrooms to offices, and nobody feels left out by them. They also tend to mean more, because people chose those things. Add your own if your group likes them.
How should I respond when someone compliments me?
A simple "thank you" is enough; there's no need to argue or play it down. If it feels natural, add a few words, such as "that's kind of you to notice", and let it make your day.
How can teachers give compliments without anyone feeling left out?
Put the class list in the picker: No repeats until everyone is picked is on from the start, so every pupil gets a turn. Keep the compliments about effort and kindness, which every child can earn honestly.