Ways to use this list
- Sunday reset: set Winners to 3, spin once and fit the three ideas into your day before the new week starts.
- Busy parents: 5 minutes or less has ideas that fit into nap time, the school run or the gap while the pasta boils.
- Break wheel at work: put it on a shared screen at lunch and let it choose a ten-minute break away from desks.
- Exam season: students spin one small break between study sessions, so rest is planned rather than a guilty scroll.
- Partners, friends or flatmates: spin an idea for each other, such as making the other person's hot drink or planning their lie-in.
Press Spin the wheel, tap the game or press the Space bar. Change the list in the box as you
like: add your own, delete what doesn't suit you, or write *2 after an entry to give it double the
chance. The game buttons switch the same list to a duck race, hat, claw machine and more.
The full list (46 entries)
- Take a slow walk outside
- Make your favourite hot drink
- Have a long bath or shower
- Read for 20 minutes
- Call a friend
- Listen to a whole album
- Write down three good things
- Tidy one small space
- Open a window for fresh air
- Stretch for five minutes
- Sit in the sunshine
- Take a short nap
- Have an early night
- Put your phone away for an hour
- Do a puzzle
- Doodle or colour in
- Cook a meal you love
- Watch a comfort film
- Water your plants
- Write in a journal
- Sing along to a favourite song
- Dance around the kitchen
- Wear your comfiest clothes
- Make a feel-good playlist
- Visit a library or bookshop
- Plan something to look forward to
- Spend time with a pet
- Sit quietly for five minutes
- Watch the clouds go by
- Unsubscribe from emails you never read
- Clear your desk
- Try a new hobby for an hour
- Bake something simple
- Send someone a kind message
- Look through old photos
- Have a lie-in
- Do a crossword
- Potter in the garden
- Take a different route home
- Buy yourself some flowers
- Have a screen-free evening
- Hug someone you love
- Take ten slow breaths
- Say no to one thing this week
- Meet a friend for a walk
- Listen to a podcast you enjoy
Questions people ask
What counts as self-care?
Anything small that leaves you a little more rested, connected or calm afterwards. It doesn't have to cost money or take long: a cup of tea in silence, a call to a friend or ten minutes outside all count.
Are there different self-care ideas for men and women?
Not really: the same small things help almost anyone, from a walk to an early night or time with friends. Edit the list so it fits your life, and add the hobbies that recharge you, whether that's fishing, baking or fixing a bike.
What if small self-care ideas aren't enough?
These ideas are for everyday stress, not a substitute for proper support. If you have felt low for weeks, or daily life feels hard to manage, talk to someone you trust and to a doctor or a local support line.
How can I make self-care a regular habit?
Tie it to something you already do, like a five-minute idea straight after the school run or before bed. The random habit generator has more small habits to try.