Ways to use this list
- A quiet evening in: phones away, take turns drawing, and let each answer wander wherever it wants before the next card.
- Anniversary parties: guests draw a card and the couple answers on the spot. It works as well for a first anniversary as for a golden one.
- The shoe game at a wedding or anniversary: the couple sit back to back, each holding one of their own shoes and one of their partner's, and raise a shoe for every Who is more likely card.
- A long drive: the passenger draws and reads, the driver answers, and you swap at the next stop.
- A weekly check-in: draw one question each Sunday evening and talk about something other than plans and chores.
Press Draw a card, tap the game or press the Space bar. Change the list in the box as you
like: add your own, delete what doesn't suit you, or write *2 after an entry to give it double the
chance. The game buttons switch the same list to a wheel, duck race, hat and more.
The full list (40 entries)
- What did you think of me the first time we met?
- Which day together would you happily live again?
- What is a small thing I do that makes you smile?
- What song makes you think of us?
- Where should our next trip together be?
- What is your favourite meal that we have shared?
- Which of us is the better navigator?
- What habit of mine did you find funny at first?
- What is something you would like us to learn together?
- What was our silliest disagreement about?
- Which of us would win at hide and seek?
- What is your favourite photo of us, and why?
- If we wrote a book about us, what would the title be?
- What tradition would you like us to start?
- What made you laugh hardest this year?
- What is one thing I have taught you?
- Who said "I love you" first?
- What would our perfect lazy weekend look like?
- What is the best present I have ever given you?
- If we opened a little shop together, what would it sell?
- What do you think we will be doing in 20 years?
- What is your favourite thing about our home?
- Which household job do you secretly enjoy?
- What is a challenge we got through together?
- If you had to pick a new nickname for me, what would it be?
- What three words describe us as a team?
- What is a dream you would like my help to reach?
- What did you want to tell me today but forgot?
- What would you cook me on a rainy evening?
- What are you most grateful for this month?
- Who is more likely to get us lost?
- Who is more likely to cry at a film?
- Who is more likely to lose the keys?
- Who is more likely to sing in the shower?
- Who is more likely to adopt a stray cat?
- Who is more likely to plan a surprise?
- Who is more likely to burn the toast?
- Who is more likely to fall asleep first?
- Who is more likely to talk to the plants?
- Who is more likely to win an argument?
📖 Related guide: Who goes first? 12 fair ways to decide
Questions people ask
Are these couples questions clean?
Yes. They are sweet and playful rather than flirty, so you can use them at a family anniversary party with grandparents in the room, and nobody will blush.
How do you play a couples question game?
Take turns drawing a card. The person who draws answers first, then asks their partner the same question. For a twist, guess each other's answer before it is said and score a point for each match.
Where can I find deeper questions for couples?
The deep questions wheel has questions about values, hopes and lessons learned. They suit partners and old friends who want a longer, slower conversation.
How many questions should we answer in one go?
Five to ten is plenty for one evening. Good questions start stories, and a single card can fill half an hour if you let it run.